I finally got mine back up. The log shown by the wizard did not
help, but the update.log sure did. I have some junk site that was
throwing an error in the update.log. I luckly could still get
Central Admin to work(but css was screwed up) and deleted that site.
Once I did that everything worked ok.
If you are running MOSS, install the wss sp1 first on all boxes but
hit cancel before running wizard. The install MOSS sp1 on all boxes
but dont run wizard. Once code is updated on all boxes, then go back
to CA box and upgrade it first. Once completed, do each box in the
farm.