What control are you using to show the SharePoint aspx page? I believe
that most HTML/Page viewer controls abide by the settings in IE on the
client. If not, perhaps there is a property on the HTML/Page viewer
control.
What WebPart class was the SharePoint web Part written against. If it
was the WSS WebPart class, it can only run on SharePoint. If it was the
.NET WebPart class (recommended), it can run elsewhere. The exported
.webpart file is only XML that describes the Web Part. You will also
need to move the DLL that contains the Web part to the bin of the
destination site or the GAC.